Marriage in the Quran

There are a number of verses in the Quran that refer to marriage , either directly or indirectly. This verse can give us a basic understanding of what God wants for us in the field of marriage. Allah
 
Women and men are brothers
The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: 

"An- Nisa'u shaqa'iqu ar - rijal . " "Women are full sisters men"

We come from the same common ancestor
All women and men are descended from the same original human being. The blood bond is linked to the rights and obligations between men and women. Please refer to the opening of the Surah An- Nisa :

"Oh , people take care of your Lord , Who created you from a single person and created a companion and caused these two many men and women . And beware of Allah by asking others and bellies. Allah will is watching . " [ Noble Quran 4:01 ] Allah

The affection between spouses is one of the signs of Allah
The affection that God has created in the hearts of the spouses is one of the great signs for men of understanding . These people may look at this aspect of God's creation and the greatness of the work and the power of God and the great mercy that God has placed in it was recalled . Please refer to Sura Ar - Ron

"And among His signs is that He created for you are your own friends that can bring peace to them and put between you love and compassion . Verily in that are Signs for those who reflect. " [Noble Quran 30:21] Allah

" It is He who created you from a single soul and made him his companion that he can get to calm her down. " [Noble Quran 7:189]

According to this study , the relationship between husband and wife should be one of love , compassion and understanding. If the husband and wife do not find this in their marriage , they should convert to Islam and completeness of uboodiya ( slavery and complete worship) with Allah. For each of them focuses on the entire Islam carefully and maintain their obligations to each other - instead of focusing on the faults of others and try to use Islam as a stick to beat down - affection , compassion and the great calm and peace in the life of the house is insha'Allah .
 
Allah expressly directs men to be kind to their wives
Since the most common on the side of man's inhumanity civil guilt, unkindness or lack of compassion , Allah and His Prophet (peace and salvation be upon him ) emphasized the need for the man kindness and good treatment . Allah said :

" And interact with their wives in a good way if you feel aversion for them , it is very possible that you dislike something in which Allah placed much good. " [ Noble Quran 4:19 ]

On the same subject , the Prophet (peace and salvation be upon him) said:

" Khairukum khairukum li'ahlihi li'ahliy khairukum wa ana . "
" The best of you is the best of you to your family ( ie wife ) and I am the best of you to my family." Tirmidhi and others ( sahih )

Allah reminds women to obey their husbands
Islamic home is arranged in the same way that the Muslim community as a whole. This is an Amir who is in charge and has final and ultimate responsibility in the house as the Caliph of the Ummah has general authority. Allah
The Caliph is obliged to consult the people of knowledge before making important decisions. Following this consultation, it is not bound by his opinion though. Instead, he was ordered to take what he considers the best and right decision , though perhaps not the opinion of choice among those with whom he consulted . The Caliph has no obligation to consult people with no knowledge or experience sharia and / or subject matter. Allah
 
Similarly, the Muslim husband. 
His wife is his adult companion home. 
Are advised to consult with it in cases where it may have to offer some constructive contribution. As Khalifah , he is not bound by any of their opinions and that must always strive to follow the right course of Islamic action . Toddlers are not part of the " shura " Father , especially in education and discipline. Mother and father have to work together on these issues with the final authority and always belonging to the father of the decision making. It is easy to find examples of families suffering great discord in the correct relationship between husband and wife is not maintained or when one of them puts children above the other. Then it becomes a question of who is raising who? Allah
 
The Muslim father was ordered by Allah to do everything in his power to protect his wife and children by fire. It is your responsibility and authority - even if it goes against their views. Allah said :

"O you who believe , you and members of your family to maintain a fire whose fuel is men and stones . Over it are fierce and powerful angels . They disobey and Allah's orders and do what they are told ." [ Noble Quran 66:6 ] Allah

Since the main temptation for women in marriage is disobedience and disrespect to her husband , Islam insists that to control this aspect of his personality as the man said to prevent cruelty and lack of compassion. Allah said :

"Men have authority over women with that with which Allah preferred some of you over others and with what they spend of their wealth. Then the righteous [women] are obedient [women] to keep in absence that Allah saved. regarding which detects blame the rebellion , and sleep in separate hit . If you obey , do not want them in a way . Allah is the High, the Great. " [Noble Quran 4:34]

Of course, this obedience is only in that which is not disobedience to Allah as is clear from the statement of the Prophet (peace and salvation be upon him ) :

" Laa li taa'ata makhluqin fiy ma'siyati Khaliq " Allah

" There can be no obedience to a created being in disobedience to the Creator. "
In a sahih hadith , the Prophet (peace and salvation be upon him ) mentioned that one of the signs of Qiyama is  
    "when the husband is obedient to his wife" Allah

Marriage is the Sunnah of the Prophets
It was the way of the prophets of Allah the Almighty to marry and have children. ' Isa was a notable exception whose life was very short and has never been one of those things . Never taught celibacy and should not be considered as an example in this regard. Allah said :

" We have sent messengers before you and made for them wives and descendants. " [ Noble Quran 13:38 ] Allah Marriage

Marriage must begin and continue if
Previous evidence shows up correct Islamic marriage . It is one in which there is affection and compassion between spouses. It is one of the two spouses love Allah more than anything else . It is one in which the husband is kind and generous to his wife and the wife is obedient and respectful to her husband. They must find rest and peace in each other's company. Why then is our current reality so far from this ideal in many cases?
 
Obviously , the first place we should look is ourselves and our actions. Second, experience has shown that marriages that start off badly and disobedience are usually doomed to failure. For example, many Muslims regard as joint unbelievers looking for that is attractive to them and to speak at length with them to " get to know " Definitely a Muslim should try to know the person . Allah Marriage
intend to marry, but to meet and talk in person or by phone is not the right way to go . This usually results in finding a marriage partner based on their attractiveness. the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him ) told us that anyone who chooses one based on something more than his piety everything is doomed companion

" A woman is sought in marriage of four things. Their beauty , wealth , social position and family ties Achieve victory with piety , that his hands be in the dust! "

The meaning of " hands may be in the dust" might be affected (eg , poverty ) if you do not follow what I say.
Good Intent
Marriage is one of the most important social relations of society . If things go wrong , there is little hope for the whole of society - especially the next generation. Consider the following prayer from the mouths of those who repent and do righteous deeds :

" And those who say : Lord, grant us from our wives and our offspring new eyes and make us an example for the people of piety ." [ Noble Quran 25:74] Allah Marriage

Marriage is an act of worship and " half of religion"

The importance of marriage in Islam can be seen in the following hadith :

"Man tazawwaja istakmala faqad nisfa al - Allaha Fridge falyattiqi nisf Fiy one - to - . Baaqiy "

"Whoever marries has completed half of his faith. Whilst refraining from Allah as regards the other half. "
This is , of course, when a person gets married for the right reasons and the right way . Many researchers have pointed out that marriage is preferable to focus on other acts of worship. Allah Marriage