Are Men too crazy to marry a career woman ?

When writer Michael Noer wrote in the U.S. magazine Forbes bible business has to marry a career woman was a sure way to misery and divorce, unleashed a storm of protest .
The response of a woman described as his article ? Blood - boilingly misogynist ? But it was also an important support for your argument. Thus, there is a point ? Woman asked a group of writers for their opinions differ slightly.
The sister of the protest was as virulent as expected when ambitious Michael Noer warned not to marry career women if they would be successful or happy.

How dare argue unrepentant misogynist like to marry a woman who is college, earning over £ 20,000 a year and has a 35 - hour work week is a fast track to divorce court ? Well, sorry , ladies ? more trouble than you know? but he's right . And no feminist rage can change the basic fact of life so powerful dual career spells disaster . woman
Marriages that are not compatible with two runs only do so when a couple is sometimes fades to another. A classic example was Margaret Thatcher. She would never have achieved what he did without Denis in the background and support.

Of all the brilliant women I've known, none of them had a full-time career and spent 40 happy marriage . You can barely hold together when you're young and just starting out , but staff burnout a career high enough to purchase a wedding flight . And there is no evidence that couples who barely see each other due to work commitments can support the love and loyalty of a marriage is often a difficult journey. men
With two people working at full speed, the price is very high. Two ego to handle two people most of the day put two stressed individuals focused away from family life and the next first.
Noer is right to say ? More successful a woman is more likely to be satisfied with you ? .
Successful women have their own people in the workplace , where most cases you should still do most of the housework , chores, cooking, cleaning and child rearing .

Noer also argues that men are fundamentally unhappy if their wives earn more than them. And he's right . Dream of having a high gain pair, but I like the power and the freedom it gives to the woman .
And to be honest , women ? even feminists ? were not very comfortable with earn more than their husbands. We always thought that somehow his vaguely castrate a man to make less of a woman.
Ultimately, the great feminist revolution of the 20th century was to allow women to go to work, to be free, to be independent . But what has never changed is the basic requirements for a happy marriage. Above all , it takes time ? and two high-powered careers while this rule.
Michael Noer has certainly made things happen with a series of dogmatic life and tastes of others.
The head and independent women are up in arms throwing insults his way. Me too! I do not see that having a career as a woman paralyzed me . It gave me a sense of accomplishment , a number of interests outside the home, the conversation that stretched beyond diapers and strollers.

My income has given us a holiday we never had the money to spend on looking good , parties for friends, and caring for elderly parents.
Things have changed since the first marriage. And for better . Michael Noer insulting to men today , as well as women to think that they prefer the docile and submissive women. It was like that once , just after the war. The dream was that we would all be happy nest in domestic happiness to offset the stress of war . This does not happen .
Instead generations of women grew depressed, your brain asleep for the family routine , a growing number depends tranquilizers. Many women have tried this way through life and not love.

Things are much better now. The men open their hearts to share the lives of their children more than they once did . It gives a hot prospect in the world, a happy sense of what a family with . woman
Women , meanwhile , enjoy the company of colleagues , security to make money for themselves, the variety of careers to dispel the monotony of housework .
I want people to be happy. Really. Therefore , men should marry the girls they see fit for them . The high flying executive male prefer a woman who can hold his position agile , and can talk to him and his boss at the things that matter .

Sweet Man ambition? tolerant, which tends to decrease ? ask someone naturally compatible. But we will not issue dictates. The human heart is unique and is always able to surprise us.
Always worried feminist transport cards, and I know I should burn my protest against the brain than it seems at first glance to be a tirade of misogyny .
But oddly enough , I agree with Michael Noer . It is totally unfair that after 40 years of feminism , women should be penalized to climb the ladder of success , there is no sense of evolution.
The male of the species is programmed to provide , while feeding female gene , allowing you to take care of a child screaming and soothe a harried husband.

I do not mean a return to Victorian values , but certainly when the two of you work ten hour day , one of you has to manage the TLC .
And because men are useless like sympathy , is for women to assume this role. For my part , I like being a nurse , and yet I have never met a man he did not like my old-fashioned values .
Take my current partner. Every day I call him and ask him what he wants for dinner. Now I 'm back from Sainsbury ? S loaded with your favorite treats and when you come home , the house is warm and bright.
And I must say it feels good to make him happy . One thing , though: make sure he pays for everything you need to create this haven of peace , or go on strike .

New Neanderthals
There is a support group for neo - Neanderthals as Michael Noer .
They also believe that women are more suitable for house cleaning and raising children as a career, and believe that women should stay away from the temptations of the office and sexy male colleagues. They call themselves the Taliban, and if they are never short of a spin doctor, you need look no further that Mr. Noer .
According to his misogynistic logic , we are all fools unable or multitasking fickle loyalty. Let's have a race, and our customs and the ability to suck out the window.
Apart from the essential fact that these days most families need two incomes to make ends meet , Mr. Noer plays fast and loose with a lot of questionable statistics .

If women who try to support children , marriage and career are too stressed, maybe you should consider why. In the sixties , when the financial need , my mother was forced to look for a job , my father said he would? Pay ? allowed to work as long as it does not fall behind in their work ? ? ? ? . woman
These days , most men? ? including my father ? actually make more sense than to express this point of view , but that does not mean that many do not think it's secret.
A friend told me that, although he enjoyed the company of intelligent women , she intended to marry one ? Old ? daughter. An Oxford graduate himself , said he was sick of women who attempt tied for ya? 

Do you have everything ? . woman
He married a bright well-educated woman who had clearly read articles like Mr. Noer and determined that the way to keep a man was to focus on the support of his career.
Bored and frustrated , which is both life miserable for five years, until she had an affair with her personal trainer, and both are separated .
My friend is happily married man with a head of PR superpower whose salary figures six dwarfs yours. They can afford a nanny for her two , cleaner, part time doing housework loves none of them can be bothered.
Marriage is about commitment and collaboration , right? ? The specialization of labor ? . The focus as a business ? Mr. Noer done? and sooner or later you will be in bankruptcy.
When I went home and asked my wife novelist ? ? ? ? ? What you do today , honey , I hope to hear something different every day.

But how different the responses of a woman who stays at home can pick up ? And I should know : our early days of parenting , my wife had a desk job ( and the essential salary ) while I was a writer. So I became his son 's career . I'm sure it was quite annoying to come home . woman
And to be honest , I was bored . So I can really ask for or expect my wife to do ? If you do not want to limit my life , why her? Then? because I offered to do more weekend child care ? she took the time to write a first novel and launch his own career. I could not imagine not living with a career woman .

Does that mean that our children are so well brought up ? Yes , they probably are. Than 04 hours during the pottery is sometimes just not a runner. But there is a huge head : see the father and mother who works hard , enjoy their work , increased satisfaction of this work. woman}}}
You say that only really counts for our daughter, it is she who has to see a female model.
But the opposite is also true: my son the opportunity to see a father who cooks most of the family meals, laundry, who knows basically everything about domestic life as his mother. Like any man should .
And most importantly , my son will not repeat my experience of watching my own mother, who was stranded and alone when their children grew up , it seems almost envy of the full life led her husband to work.
Best of the two works , and works hard is that the same? Sometimes I give in to his career , sometimes it's mine . And when we got home , we remain responsible for everything, good and bad.
I learned the truth at ten years old when I discovered that my father had momentarily dropped my tall, slender brunette LSE educated mother has an affair with a plump blonde who worked in the store of local fish and chips. Shortly after my parents divorced .

My mother, you see, was a career woman . No one who has made a lot of money spent which in itself , not the masses swanned worldwide charismatic men gathered . But a career woman whose career was to run a successful business with my father.
However, even though my parents? targets were identical , their finances together, their shared benefits , career my mother finally led to the collapse of his marriage, simply because it was more laborious , more dedicated , and ? the strength of her beauty, personality and charm ? eclipsed my father at every turn.

Years later , my mother and I sat down together to analyze the impact of a successful career in their marriage. ? The problem is ? He says, ? Most men want a woman who is part of his image , not an image of themselves. ?
Then there was my friend Patricia , a French psychiatrist success that saw patients in his office, while her husband , the musician playing the piano with your heart's content , funded by his career. Ten years after his marriage, he left her for an older woman who did not work , but devoted his life to worship.

In both cases , the more successful career woman , more castrated men and most endangered of marriage.
And as much as I wish it was not true ? the world is full of husbands who love , admire and support their wives women in the race and that we women can be very happy to play our individual husbands Madonna, Philip Elizabeth our Queen ? the harsh reality is that neither the individual nor Phil seems happy to be married to a career woman who outshines every step of the way .
Committed career woman ? I work as obsessive workaholic man? It is almost as fatal to marriage as the wife of the parasite who prefer to see the world in its efforts to go out and get a job in itself .

Any man who meets a woman from his fanatical work ? if a trader in the city or hospital consultant , a member or a director ? must look elsewhere for a wife .
A woman who is at work before 7:30 am and after 7:30 pm , which talks about his work at breakfast and dinner and has a portfolio of holiday teddy is a victim of egocentric constraint continue the same way after the wedding .
The man who would be happy for the rest of your life should certainly run away from a visit to the altar with this woman as fast as his legs would carry. On the other hand, some qualities make it desirable to live than the sound of his monthly salary to sound woman happily in the joint account.

A good special cake deserves a great honor and a loving mother is a noble figure , a hot happy double bed is a treasure beyond price . But the woman who makes the same to the board of the family contribution is the rarest jewelry sex.
Why? In all cases ? only men should have to endure the misery , degradation and fatigue from work?

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